Prayer Works For Me (and anyone else)

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Yesterday my oldest child, still a baby sometimes at 5 years old, got some major dental work.  He is a somewhat timid child, not a big risk taker, often afraid of new experiences.  Our dentists office is fantastic, both kids loved their first two checkups.  This time Nathan needed three crowns, which involved conscious sedation and laughing gas.  We didn’t tell him anything except that the dentist needed to “paint” his teeth.  He was pretty cool with that, but I was not.


So I asked for prayer from my Facebook friends.  I know that many many of them are serious prayer warriors, and took my request seriously.  It was not an off-handed thing for me…not much makes me nervous, but this did, and I was quite serious about wanting prayer.  Of course I prayed myself…a ton.  But I do believe that the more  people pray for someone, the more an invisible wall of protection is raised…the more a wave of comfort takes over.  The book of James says “the prayer of a righteous man is fervent and effective.”  In God’s mysterious way, even though the outcome is known and predestined, prayer changes things.  It works, it is powerful, it is a weapon.  One that ought to be wielded often.

I was nervous about leaving Nathan alone in the procedure room because I had to entertain Alex in the waiting room.  I was afraid he would quickly figure out what was going down and start bawling and asking for me.  But they offered him his choice of movie on a little TV anchored to the ceiling so he could watch it while they worked, and he even had headphones to hear it over the sound of the drill.  That helped me worry less.  The sedation sure seemed to work quickly.  Alex was my biggest challenge, it being lunchtime and we had a long wait.  But everything went well and Dr. James said Nathan was a great patient.  I had to help him walk and feed him his ice cream lunch, but then he slept all afternoon.  He’s not happy about the metal crowns, and is still a bit lethargic and emotional, but doing well.

Thank you, my Facebook friends, for your highly effective prayers to calm my nerves and bring Nathan safely through.

I would love to hear your stories of how prayer has worked for you in my comments!

WFMW – Shooting RAW and Using Adobe Lightroom for Photo Editing

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This is just a quick Works for Me Wednesday post before I hit the grindstone today.  A lot of people ask me how I get my photos to look so great.  Yes, I have a nice camera, a Nikon D90 digital SLR.  Yes, I have a collection of lenses and I know when each lens is appropriate to use. And of course, there is a lot of technique and experience involved in getting the shot.  But one tool in my arsenal has nothing to do with the camera at all, it’s what I do after the shot is downloaded to my computer. 

People also often ask me for quick copies of simple things, like my extended family asking for the digital files to copy during a weekend together so they don’t have to wait till I get home, edit, and upload them.  I get a lot of eye-rolling when I say no, that nothing ever goes unedited.  Nothing.  In fact, I don’t shoot JPG files, only RAW, so you can’t open them up to use or print without edting software.  This is my number one tip for new photographers using digital SLRs if you want to improve your photos….shoot in RAW.  One RAW file captures infinite more light and color data than a JPG file.  You may not notice the difference until you start trying to edit the image, but then you will surely figure out the advantage fast.  RAW allows you to “fix” under or over-exposed shots far more easily. 

If you are on a super tight budget, I highly recommend Photoshop Elements.  If you are serious about improving your photos, and especially if you take a LOT of photos, spend the extra money and get yourself Adobe Lightroom.  Lightroom is designed for photographers, not graphic artists, which is what Photoshop is really meant for.  It has done wonders for my workflow, allowing me to work faster and more efficiently.  If you have 20 images of the same person in the same spot with slightly different expressions you can make your edits to the first image and copy the settings to the other 19, lickety split!  I can soften the skin of newborn babies to give them that special glow, I can remove cuts and pimples from people’s faces, and I can make colors pop more.  It takes some practice with the various tools in the program, but I find it intuitive and there are countless free tutorials available on the interent. 

So that’s my advice for taking the next step in your photography, and it’s what works for me.