The Psychology of Personal Finance

The reason I like studying and writing about money, specifically personal finance, is that it’s not about the numbers. Money management is really all about psychology and how people think about themselves and the world around them. I enjoy people and learning the hows and whys of behavior and thought. The reading material on the subject is endless.

I’m enjoying Financial Peace University so much because it is so hopeful, so optimistic and inspires positive change in people’s lives. Money management, and specifically self-discipline, is a strength of mine and that’s why I like studying it and employing techniques that can only enhance that strength. Which is why I was so looking forward to this week’s FPU lesson, “Working In Our Strengths”. From the notes it looked like the class was about maximizing income by finding your strengths and using them to increase earning potential. Great concept, right? The workbook even had a list of potential home based businesses and part-time freelance jobs. This is stuff I love because Mike and I both have side incomes and I’ve seen the potential in freelancing and building a personal business by reading Ramit Sethi‘s book and blog “I Will Teach You To Be Rich” which focuses mostly on earning more.

Except that’s not at all what the video lecture from Dave Ramsey was like. I know I’m totally paraphrasing but my general impression of the bulk of the lesson was if you don’t go to work every day giddy because you love what you do so much, you’re screwed. That’s totally bogus in my book. It talked about looking at your personality and strengths and finding a career that allow you to use those, which of course is good. But the way it was worded and phrased was more depressing to me than hopeful. I can only imagine how it would feel if you were nearing the end of a long career in one industry, only to be told you may have been in the wrong job for all that time.

Additionally when it came to talking about earning some extra income, Dave referred to it as “the DREADED part-time job”. He emphasized that it was only a temporary situation aimed at paying down debt and talked about taking jobs like delivering pizza. This is so ridiculous! Freelancing on the side is AWESOME and so easy when people are motivated. This whole lesson could have been framed so much more positively, encouraging people to use their talents and skills to find freelance work or start a small home business on the side.

Maybe the lesson was built with the kind of people who usually take FPU in mind, people in desperate situations who have already piled up mountains of debt. Perhaps Dave assumes that these people aren’t self-disciplined enough to make good money on the side freelancing and are better suited flipping burgers for awhile? If so, that’s really sad. I’d like to think that people in FPU are motivated to make positive changes in their lives and that could include finding ways to make more money. It leaves me wondering if I could do something to help people in this class see this potential.

So it begs the question, have you ever found a way to earn some extra money outside of your main career? Have you thought about it?

Dining Out for Free

Today’s Works for Me Wednesday is about how my husband and I have changed our spending habits and found a great way to still eat out occasionally…for free! Since we started Financial Peace University and created a monthly spending plan, we purposely cut one of our biggest money wasters…eating out. We are still adjusting the monthly allowance and learning how to eat at home more often. But I have discovered one way I can keep eating out occasionally without busting our budget, through our credit card rewards program.

According to Dave Ramsey’s plan we should never use credit cards and pay for everything with cash. That is WISE advice for people who have had trouble with credit and have racked up lots of consumer debt. We don’t fall into that category, thankfully, so we still use one credit card for many of our purchases each month. The key is that we have never ever had to carry a balance on that card, and we are now watching and tracking our spending very closely. We have used a Discover Card for many years because of the 1-5% cash back rewards system it has. We used to simply apply the cash we got back in the form of rewards to the balance on our bill. That money is kind of like bonus money, since many cards don’t offer it.

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Lately instead of taking the reward in the form of cash, we trade it in for gift cards to some of our favorite restaurants. With Discover we can spend $45 is rewards money and get a $50 gift card to Panera Bread, Chipotle, or Outback Steakhouse for example. That’s five dollars extra “free money” on every transaction. Because we use that one card for regular expenses like daycare and groceries, we usually can get two $50 gift cards every month in cash back rewards.

When I looked at our expenses before we started Financial Peace, I was shocked by how many $8 lunches at Chipotle my husband had racked up. Now he has started bringing his lunch to work instead of eating out every single day, but he can use that Chipotle gift card to eat lunch out at least once a week…essentially for free! The same goes for me and Panera Bread, since it is a mere two miles from my house and I often went there for coffee and a bagel or a take-out lunch when working from home. We also often head to Panera after church for a family lunch. I have cut back on meals out, but I feel great about being able to use my $50 Panera card to cover the occasional indulgence.

So this plan may not work for everyone, but it is definitely working for me. Got any similar tips for eating out on a tight budget?